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T O P I C R E V I E Wneptune5i feel really uncomfortable talking about this, but since i've been here for a while and i'm kind of "known" then i'll state my case. now, i really don't think any thing in my natal chart points to me being overtly physically attractive. But there have been a few incidents, and a couple more in the past, where guys at least 10+ older than me and strangers, i've never seen them in my life before, have "called me out" like saying things like "your too fine" "hey sexy...come over here so i can talk to you" and there was a staff clerk (he was in uniform) at the Omni William Penn Hotel (very nice hotel) that had even semi-cornered me and wanted to know my name and i just walked off, its only gotten worse as i've got older, and sometimes i guess you can see it makes a girl feel special, but after a while, it gets SO annoying!I guess if someone sees anything in my chart that points to that: And also if any other persons here at lindaland is going through the same thing that i'm going through, please don't be afraid to post...i'd like to be kept company... ------------------Virgo Rising, Sagittarius Sun, Pisces Moonneptune5i'm sorry about that chart being small...hold on i hope these ones are bigger: ------------------Virgo Rising, Sagittarius Sun, Pisces MoonMama MiaEmbrace it..I flunt my stuff they can whistle hoot and holla all they want, BUT I do the choosing..As long as they stay out of my personal space then we are ok.. aqua infernoDarling, don’t let anyone push you around…or corner you Chart-wise you do have Venus(charm) trine Jupiter(expands) - but I don’t exactly know what I’m looking for. So I’ll leave it to someone more knowledgeable.------------------aka WaterNymph ***alex - yes I'm a girl***pisces/virgo/pisces/aquarius/aries/aries.GlaucusI would say that it's the Sun-Venus conjunction oppose Mars that indicates being sexually attractive.AcousticGodI'd also throw in the concentration in the 4th house. You may exude some Cancerian (ultra-womanly) vibe that is very attractive to some folks.neptune5thanks for the understanding fellow knoflakes, highly appreciated! ------------------Virgo Rising, Sagittarius Sun, Pisces MoonnoreenzHappy Birthday Sweetie!Sweet 16? Geez, you're only a couple months older than my son. Now, please excuse by bluntness here, but hon, sometimes men can be pigs. You are 16, I experienced it when I was your age, even neighbor men (yuck) men in shopping malls with small children in toe and yeah it was disturbing to me too. I experienced it being in places with my oldest daughter(now 24) men just gawking or saying something stupid, older ones made her want to throw up, lol...........and now I get to witness it with my 13 year old daughter, as a mother, ya just wanna slap a few, lol **RANT** over, lol, ya know, this kinda thing can be frightening to a young girl... and some older guys think it amusing...I apologize if I've offended anyone, people are who they are....I've just had a couple incidents that thoroughly disgusted me thats all.DayDreamerNeptune,Happy Belated Birthday Noreenz...what you said 23As Noreenz alluded to, I think it might simply be that you are young. Men will try to take advantage of young females as they view them as niave. I think every girl gets it more or less. Just make sure that you make it clear to them that you are not interested in them. I had few to approach me but a lot of gawks and wolf whistles and yelling at me - must be the "back off" Aqu sun-Aries asc. As others said, your 4th house or other qualities such as pisces moon must be picked up on by others and make them feel that you are approachable. teaologistHappy belated, yo.23Tea - yeah it is pretty gross and I know this isn't nice to say, but its usually the not so nice looking specimens from about 30-50 carrying on like bozos.sthenriYes the pisces moon is it, it's feminine and mysterious and attracts people who are looking for whatever they want in an ideal woman. Just remember "you are not a puzzle piece that needs to fit"These men are all about themselves and flatter themselves too, it's nothing to do with you or what you want. You are not their woman and none of these people belong to you, not responsible.I know someone with a pisces moon/10th house who got this all through high school and she was ultra conservative. And yes the 4th house sun does it too, attracts romance.The saturn is in taurus which is solid, steady and traditional, you may seem older.Don't worry, it's your life and you get to choose.Also protect yourself by not walking home alone, and don't put yourself out too much in public. As a water moon myself, I attract too much attention on the street, so I wear black, or a hooded sweatshirt, low key stuff. And I don't walk home alone after dark.Rememeber some good comeback linesOne I use is from Elton John"I don't want some secondhander feeding me lines"Or just BYE BYE!NatashaTaurus/CancerBornUnderDioscuriHAPPY BELATeD BIRTHDAY NEPTUNE!!And I know exactly what you mean and its not flatering its rather scary because its all the time and they make me feel aweful about myself rather than good when they say things like that on the street to the point that I stopped wearing short skirts at all. Im 19 now and it also only got worse but started when i was 13... I dont have Sun conj Venus. But many of my plantes are in Cancer and im a Libra ASC...for some reason a lot of ppl tend to think im weak when they meet me. Maybe thats it. :/------------------Sun-GeminiMoon-ScorpioASC-LibraLibrarianI do not believe I ever talked to you but happy birthday!!!!------------------26 maleSun LibraMoon LibraVenus VirgoMars ScorpioJupiter VirgoSaturn LibraAscendant Virgoaquaspryt69neptune5~I've experienced this sort of thing all my life, too, and it's gotten worse this past year. The only thing I see that you and I have in common is the Pisces moon. So, I'll bet that Sthenri is right.It probably wouldn't be so bad if they weren't so disgusting about it.Jan_AI am very surprised, nobody mentioned your Mars in Gemini. Squares with ASC and Moon plus Oppositions with your Sun and Venus are the reason. You attract aggressive men. And it will not change. Although it's not so bad at all P.S. Mars is in chatter-box Gemini, so, they always want to talk to you GlaucusWell...I told her about her opposition of Sun-Venus conjunction and Mars, and they square her Moon for a t-square. There are challengings involving her emotional nature,feelings,nurturing are in conflict and friction with her ego,self expression,affections,love,relationships, and her passion,assertiveness,and physical energy which are in odds with each other.It's a mutable t-square,and so it's a bit restless,changeable,and adaptable. It's angular too,and so it's dynamic.themysteryclubHey neptune, i totally understand. My advice to you is not to hide yourself, but to put up a pyschic defense feild, and put out the vibe that you are worthy of respect. I have had the same problems, but my sense of self and dignity keeps me from feeling violated or demeaned when men do this kind of thing to me. Good luck!TMC themysterycluboops double post!neptune5 quote:, i totally understand. My advice to you is not to hide yourself, but to put up a pyschic defense feild, and put out the vibe that you are worthy of respect. I have had the same problems, but my sense of self and dignity keeps me from feeling violated or demeaned when men do this kind of thing to me. TMC, thanks, that is very very useful realistic information for me, i forgot all about the psychic defense field!! Your 2 sweet! quote:Well...I told her about her opposition of Sun-Venus conjunction and Mars, and they square her Moon for a t-square. There are challengings involving her emotional nature,feelings,nurturing are in conflict and friction with her ego,self expression,affections,love,relationships, and her passion,assertiveness,and physical energy which are in odds with each other.It's a mutable t-square,and so it's a bit restless,changeable,and adaptable. It's angular too,and so it's dynamic.Raymond, you give a whirlwind of information, your lindaland's new computer textbook, ..i'm serious! quote: am very surprised, nobody mentioned your Mars in Gemini. Squares with ASC and Moon plus Oppositions with your Sun and Venus are the reason. You attract aggressive men. And it will not change. Although it's not so bad at all P.S. Mars is in chatter-box Gemini, so, they always want to talk to you.Jan_A ... agressive like...politicians?? nah they're just liars,...but they still count. (hehehehe ) but anyway thanks for the tid bit of info. And thanks everyone again for your happy birthday wishes, its been good, and thanks for all the downright truthful thoughts.If anyone else goes through anything like this, definitely post up, and if anything worse happens, you know where to find my post!------------------Virgo Rising, Sagittarius Sun, Pisces Moon
I guess if someone sees anything in my chart that points to that:
And also if any other persons here at lindaland is going through the same thing that i'm going through, please don't be afraid to post...i'd like to be kept company...
------------------Virgo Rising, Sagittarius Sun, Pisces Moon
Chart-wise you do have Venus(charm) trine Jupiter(expands) - but I don’t exactly know what I’m looking for. So I’ll leave it to someone more knowledgeable.
------------------aka WaterNymph ***alex - yes I'm a girl***pisces/virgo/pisces/aquarius/aries/aries.
Sweet 16? Geez, you're only a couple months older than my son. Now, please excuse by bluntness here, but hon, sometimes men can be pigs. You are 16, I experienced it when I was your age, even neighbor men (yuck) men in shopping malls with small children in toe and yeah it was disturbing to me too. I experienced it being in places with my oldest daughter(now 24) men just gawking or saying something stupid, older ones made her want to throw up, lol...........and now I get to witness it with my 13 year old daughter, as a mother, ya just wanna slap a few, lol **RANT** over, lol, ya know, this kinda thing can be frightening to a young girl... and some older guys think it amusing...
I apologize if I've offended anyone, people are who they are....I've just had a couple incidents that thoroughly disgusted me thats all.
Happy Belated Birthday
Noreenz...what you said
These men are all about themselves and flatter themselves too, it's nothing to do with you or what you want. You are not their woman and none of these people belong to you, not responsible.
I know someone with a pisces moon/10th house who got this all through high school and she was ultra conservative.
And yes the 4th house sun does it too, attracts romance.The saturn is in taurus which is solid, steady and traditional, you may seem older.
Don't worry, it's your life and you get to choose.Also protect yourself by not walking home alone, and don't put yourself out too much in public. As a water moon myself, I attract too much attention on the street, so I wear black, or a hooded sweatshirt, low key stuff. And I don't walk home alone after dark.
Rememeber some good comeback linesOne I use is from Elton John"I don't want some secondhander feeding me lines"
Or just BYE BYE!
NatashaTaurus/Cancer
And I know exactly what you mean and its not flatering its rather scary because its all the time and they make me feel aweful about myself rather than good when they say things like that on the street to the point that I stopped wearing short skirts at all. Im 19 now and it also only got worse but started when i was 13... I dont have Sun conj Venus. But many of my plantes are in Cancer and im a Libra ASC...for some reason a lot of ppl tend to think im weak when they meet me. Maybe thats it. :/
------------------Sun-GeminiMoon-ScorpioASC-Libra
------------------26 maleSun LibraMoon LibraVenus VirgoMars ScorpioJupiter VirgoSaturn LibraAscendant Virgo
It probably wouldn't be so bad if they weren't so disgusting about it.
It's a mutable t-square,and so it's a bit restless,changeable,and adaptable. It's angular too,and so it's dynamic.
TMC
quote:, i totally understand. My advice to you is not to hide yourself, but to put up a pyschic defense feild, and put out the vibe that you are worthy of respect. I have had the same problems, but my sense of self and dignity keeps me from feeling violated or demeaned when men do this kind of thing to me.
quote:Well...I told her about her opposition of Sun-Venus conjunction and Mars, and they square her Moon for a t-square. There are challengings involving her emotional nature,feelings,nurturing are in conflict and friction with her ego,self expression,affections,love,relationships, and her passion,assertiveness,and physical energy which are in odds with each other.It's a mutable t-square,and so it's a bit restless,changeable,and adaptable. It's angular too,and so it's dynamic.
Raymond, you give a whirlwind of information, your lindaland's new computer textbook, ..i'm serious!
quote: am very surprised, nobody mentioned your Mars in Gemini. Squares with ASC and Moon plus Oppositions with your Sun and Venus are the reason. You attract aggressive men. And it will not change. Although it's not so bad at all P.S. Mars is in chatter-box Gemini, so, they always want to talk to you.
Jan_A ... agressive like...politicians?? nah they're just liars,...but they still count. (hehehehe ) but anyway thanks for the tid bit of info.
And thanks everyone again for your happy birthday wishes, its been good, and thanks for all the downright truthful thoughts.
If anyone else goes through anything like this, definitely post up, and if anything worse happens, you know where to find my post!
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